What should I do?

by Skatergirl
(San Diego)

I had this boy. He's my ex-boyfriend two years ago. During our 7th month together I broke up with him because of some reasons. He promised me that he'll wait again but then days and months passed by. After more then 6 months he wants me back, but he has this other girl that he wants also. Then, I fight for my feelings I told him not to leave. But he chooses the girl he wants. He hurt me, and my feelings :( Then, I just let him go, because I love him. I want him to be happy.

Then, the girl he chose did'nt like him anymore. I don't know why. Then a few months passed, he just told me that he realized the I am the girl he needs. He wants me back and he doesn't want to loose in his life. But, I dont know what to do because of my friends opinions now I'm overthinking if I will give him another chance or leave those who hurt me behind.

My love for him never fades no matter what I do. He told me that he'll do everything just to have me back, he'll change for the better. What should I do? Do I need to trust him again? Give him a chance or what? Please help me with my love problem. Thank you

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May 15, 2014
thank you
by: Anonymous

Thank You for answering and giving advice on my question. :)

May 13, 2014
Sometimes it's OK to look back!
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

Hi Love,

Forgive me for my late response as I have been mourning the loss of a loved one.

In response to your question: Your entire message is about your ex and what he wants, but what do YOU want? Do you want to take a chance on him after he chose another girl over you? What if someone else were to come along that he likes, will he leave you again?

Since you are still very much in love with your ex-boyfriend, I think you should take it slow because once a person shows you who they are (his actions have shown you alot) believe them. Only time will tell if you should trust him again, so proceed with caution!

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