Should I quit the relationship or be patient?

by Gladys
(Freetown)

I Am 17 dating a 27 year old guy, he has two kids and has met with my family. He has plans to make me his wife when I am old enough. The problem is he always forcing me to have sex with him and if I don't he will do it forcefully. I love him though but I hate sex! Lately I found out that he is my friends ex.

Now he his traveling to the USA to study and promise to come back. But lately he has been avoiding me. He doesn't call unless I call him and when I do he will promise to see me but fail to do so. I told my mum she said maybe he's busy. I don't want my mum to know I am not a virgin. Should I continue with him? Please help!

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Dec 04, 2015
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RUN AWAY FAST
by: Anonymous

Hi, I am 19 years old with a similar situation. My boyfriend was 31 and I also lost my virginity to him. He has 4 children and we also had plans of marrying each other, not major plans, but we've mentioned it to one another, a few months ago after I started school he started standing me up, only calling when I called him, and basically avoiding me, if I didn't talk to him for a month we wouldn't talk for a month, and it came to the point where it took him that long to remember I existed and finally reach out.. I am currently going through the aftermath of our separation and it hurts like hell because I loved him and shared my body with him. Please don't waste any more time with this man, start the process of getting over him now. What you have to realize is a man like that who already has children and that old is not looking for anything serious with a 17 year old, think about it? What can you really do for him? What can you really offer? Everything that you are experiencing and will experience he's already been there and done that. I'm sure you're a nice beautiful girl that can find someone better who will show up when they say their going to show up and be present in your life. I can tell you all of this because I'm going through the exact same thing and I had to realize everything I just told you.

Hope this helps, be safe. love yourself first.

Nov 12, 2014
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I advise that u talk with ur Mum
by: Anonymous

A guy with two kids? And You 17? Nah

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