Should I end my relationship of nearly 10yrs, because of sex?

by Cathy
(Trinidad)

I told my common law husband that I didn't want to have sex because of a certain situation with my body, to give me a few days because if I did, it would be painful.

I fell asleep before him watching tv last night, and got up to him riding me, without protection, I was in so much pain. When I got up I told him to get off, but he didn't. He only got up when I slapped him and threatened to make noise (we live with my mom,). I was raped when I was younger, and he knows it, I had problems with him about this before. I told him it was over. Am I wrong?

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Jun 28, 2014
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In No Way are You Wrong!!!!
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

Hi Cathy!

What your common law husband did was rape you all over again, which is simply not acceptable, especially since he knows about your past. You should run as far away from this man as possible because he is a monster and has shown you "more than once" who he really is.

He didn't respect or love you enough to not want to see you suffer because you did. Sometimes it's not the number of years we are in a relationship it's the number of days that you are happy! You may want to seek counseling and consider filing charges even when I know you don't want to do that.

If you don't do anything else you should terminate this toxic relationship immediately. Good Luck!

Wishing You The Best in Love~

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