Should i contact my ex?
My ex and i broke up about a year ago, things did not end on a good note. I said things i regret and am fine claiming my share of the blame. At the time we just fought a lot and i am the type that likes to work things out and he was the type that "smoothes things over" so i said either we work on things or we don't and he said, "i think i tried."
So, we broke up last spring, and over the summer weird things started happening. I am not on Facebook but my sister is, she requested him as a friend when we were together but he did not accept her because shes a drama queen. Well that summer he ended up accepting her friend request. When she noticed she quickly deleted him. My mom also has Facebook and my ex and she have " mutual Facebook friends" he saw pictures she posted of me and "liked them." This went on for months, then his friends started showing up at my work a lot. Like they would come in and not buy anything but walk up to me and say hi. Then i saw his sisters and they ignored me. This happened a lot from October to December then nothing.
In February i took a pic with my guy best friend and he posted it on his Facebook and within 10 minutes my ex "liked it." Then in march he showed up at my work. He asked my manager if i still worked there and if i was coming in that night. (My manager said i wasn't working that night even though i was). So he left without another word. I found out a few weeks ago that my sisters manager is his best friend, well apparently he realized that too because my sisters manager told her that my ex wanted him to get information about me from my sister. She refused and now nothing. He wont just go to my house or give me a call. Its ridiculous. I still have feelings for him but i think it would be easier if we went our separate ways. I don't get why hes acting like this. He needs to grow up. Should i approach him? Its very frustrating to me because i like direct contact but i still feel very guarded around him.
Btw we are in college, if that makes a difference.