10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Did you know that women can experience different orgasms and can even have more than one?
It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can go years without an orgasm from their partners. We also prefer that our partners go deeper into foreplay first.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she'll reach climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:

1. Start outside of the Bedroom 

Want to increase the chances she'll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her job? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

2. Get her relaxed

It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back, neck and then her inner thighs to melt away the tension.

3. Ignore the object of your affections

Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of getting her wet? That's right. By kissing, caressing and touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual tension, natural desire and wetness preferred.

4. Focus on something else 

If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you'll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you've finished first and decide to help her come, you won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Last longer

Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best thing to do in order to NOT COME is: Penetrate as normal and when you feel like you're about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until you subside again. Now continue pleasuring her. :)

6. Say no to lubricants

Women have a natural lubricants that fill the vagina when they're turned on. By using a product substitute, you're only fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.

After the massage she will be wetter than a garden with the sprinklers on:)

7. Not too much clitoris

Did you know that once you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually come outand cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your fingers, tongue or penis.

8. Find it and stimulate it

The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside.
(On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G-spot. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with a love position that helps hit that spot…


9. Get positioned

Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

10. Eat that pussy

The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by eating that pussy.  Oral sex can be easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse sometimes. There are women who have had their bad share of oral and vow to never let anyone go down on them again.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, be gentle, and ask what she likes,  mix it up with lots of different movements!

However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around down there, otherwise it could be very painful and, you could even, ruin the mood.

So there you have it ­10 tips you can start using right away to give women the best experiences in the orgasm department.


Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Lick by Lick and Blow by Blow, the complete guides to giving women and men oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women frustrated and disappointed after oral sex and vice versa. Learn the craft he/she will never forget.