My man is Cheating, what should I do?
(Grand Rapids, MI, US)
I found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me when I found a strange number on our phone and I called it back. That is when the woman on the other line knew so much about me it was a shock.
I confronted my man and he told me that the lady just wanted to upset me. I ask him why would she want to do that when she does not even know me. Once I found out he started to come home later and later, he even spent the whole night out. I became a hurt and angry woman, he blame me for making him have an affair, how could I make someone have sex with another person is beyond me. It is three months since I found out I am hurt beyond words, I have never felt this type of pain in all my life. I am two quarters from graduating college and you see I cannot afford to pay the full rent for our apartment so I'm stuck until I graduate and find a job where I would be making a little more money and be able to pay for my own apartment so I have given myself until the end of the year to be fully on my own. But cheating hurts I would preferred if a man doesn't want you he should just let you know that he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore and he wants to move on, it will hurt but not as much as if he is honest with you.
So in my situation I have to live here with him while he goes out with his new lady and "F" down the place. I'm hurting still because I loved my man, but at the same time I have to continue with my life and know that I would never forgive him. Why when a man wants to cheat he starts to spill his relationship? If there is someone out there in my position let me know ho I should handle this issue should I walk or should I work it out.