My current boyfriend does not trust me because of my past relationship...He thinks I am cheating...what do I have to do to gain his trust?

We love each other so much and he thinks now that because I cheated with my ex-boyfriend up until we were officially in love... He thinks some guy out there might take me away from him... He is all I want from a man and I can not afford to loose him... I want him to stay mine forever... All I want is for him to trust me so we can move on happily ever after.

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Feb 25, 2014
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Revive the Ruins of Trust
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

Hi Love!

I don't want to discourage you but I must say first: Shame on you for sleeping with your ex until you were "officially in love"! The courting process involves gaining your partners trust, loyalty and ultimately declare their love.

Now it seems that something that was so fresh and new in the beginning is now tainted with lies!

But you already know this and I'm not here to judge. That was Lemon my bitter half! Now let's see how we can fix this.

Re-building trust is a process and is going to take time. Instead of trying to prove to your boyfriend that you're trustworthy, you should also be trying to find out why you cheated in the first place (especially since your boyfriend is everything you want in a man) because until you figure that out, you may very well cheat again.

My question to you is, do you trust yourself?

Trust is an easy word to toss around lightly but can also become irreparable. If you love him like you say, below are a few more ways to show it.

One
Buy him a dozen red roses with a personalized card of a poem you wrote. Stay in a vulnerable state of mind, remember that when you write your poem.

Two
Make it your business to schedule in date nights and romantic outings in between work and/or school. Being spontaneous is an exciting quality that can touch your partner emotionally, switch it up. Let him know you're his number one as he is yours.

Three
Put him to bed with great dinner and sex! Turn your bedroom into a freak zone. Add some candles, oils, and don't forget a cool mint for fellatio.

Sometimes words don't hold a candle to physical stimulation. Good Luck!

Wishing You The Best in Love~

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