My boyfriend always seem to be busy, his friends come first what should i do?

by Eva Jessica Boileng
(Botswana)

We hardly spend time together, he would rather leave than wait for me. What should I do?

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May 15, 2014
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Time to restore order...
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

Maybe you should stop giving your boyfriend so much power over you. Find other things to do with your time (besides waiting for him to spend time with you.) Call up some old friends, take up a new hobby or join the gym. Do everything that will keep your mind off of him.

Once you stop calling and making yourself available to him he will eventually take notice and start paying attention to you. Well, too little too late! Stop being so predictable and clingy, this is a major turn off. If you want this relationship to work, pull back and regroup. Give your boyfriend space and while doing so make your own plans, go out and STOP calling him! When he calls you tell him you have other plans even when you do or don't; or say that you will call him back and (don't! and don't answer when he calls back)

Restore the order in this relationship and make him chase you, stop being the one who's chasing!!!

Wishing You The Best in Love~

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