My best friend spends at least a half hour talking on the phone with her boyfriend every time we hang out?
So yeah, basically she's my best friend and we have another best friend so we're like a group of three. Last time we hung out, it was almost two hours of her in the closet fighting with him/crying/breaking up/getting back together/whatever. Their relationship is extremely unhealthy and unstable and I've really tried telling her this several times. They've only been going out about three months now.
But yeah, my two best friends hung out today (I couldn't) and my other friend told me she talked on the phone for THREE HOURS fighting over stupid things like Instagram and whatever, then I guess they ended the conversation. A few hours later she's on the phone with him AGAIN. I told my friend to leave her house but she said she didn't wanna walk lol.
I think this is extremely extremely rude and I don't know what to do. My other friend most likely thinks this as well but I don't know, she's not really as vocal about it as I am. I am sure that her boyfriend doesn't do this with her friends. I mean, are you kidding? Over four hours on the phone, let alone the fact that you're hanging out with another friend?
I absolutely love her but this is ridiculous. I feel like anything I say to my her she won't listen, or she'll agree with me but she'll do it the next time anyway. Any ideas? Does it seem reasonable to literally leave her house if she does this again?