It's difficult to choose between a girl who loves me on conditions and other who is ready to change for me and seeking my approval for marriage
I am 27 yrs old guy. Average plus in looks. I am in love with one girl who is like my dream girl. A girl I always wanted to live with. I am very much attracted to her and I enjoy her company. She satisfies me at every part. I am addicted to her. But when it comes to marriage. She has some conditions and some are nearly unacceptable. My family is not conservative or strict regarding customs and all but I love my family and do not want them to compromise at those issues.
Actually I love my family too. They love me and they too have some expectations from me so I cant ignore them completely. One more thing is there. When I will ask for marriage my family is not going to approve just like that means I will have to forcefully make them agree. I am ready to change at no. Of things for her happiness but she is not ready. And she shows a lot of love but no compromise. On the other hand one girl whose parents chosen me for their girl send friend request On social networking site. I dint knew her and I accepted her friend request. We started chatting I was never attracted to her. But I came to know my family also like that girl. Now that girl told me why she send friend request and she like me. And i told her my weakness. She said i will handle all. I like you. She is ready to compromise at every part. I told her all my negatives in exaggerated way still she seeks my approval. I do not like her but if I marry her all my family problems will be solved and there will be no fight on anything.
But I personally wont be happy. My choice is that girl she also loves me but I know after marriage my life will not go smooth. Some of her habits I don't like but I am ready to compromise knowing the fact perfect does not exist. But she she is not ready to make any compromise.
Tell me what should I do?