Is My Marriage Falling Apart?

by Krysta
(USA)

im 21 my husband is 25. we got married in april of 2012. we've been together for 2 years all together (dating+marriage) we only have sex about twice a month.. im not tryng 2 brag but I am a pretty girl. im 5'5 130 pounds long dark hair bright blue eyes perfect teeth. I was sexually abused as a child & it has givin me low self esteem & I have always went 4 guys that I knew wouldn't reject me.. average guys or little less than average. anyways we've only been together for 2 years & we're young ..shouldn't he want 2 have sex more? also hes started sleeping on the couch 2-3 times a week! we don't talk much hes always playing his computer game & im always n our bedroom when m home. I love him im just starting 2 wonder if ive made the right choice n marrying him. is he falling out of love? im the prettiest girl hes been with.. he proposed 4 months into our relationship.. I kno its not all about looks but im also a good person! im sometimes a ***** & my being a clean freak also bothers him but I love him but im starting 2 slowly catch myself thinking about leaving him. I understand as people stay together its not gonna b always lovey dovey but he literally gives me almost no attention ): im about 2 cry just typing this.. any suggestions?


I can b a bytch sometimes but cant every woman? hes unemployed right now I pay all of our bills give him money 4 his weed... he wants kids & I want 2 wait but he has said hes fine with that.. I was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder & I do take medication 4 it. I've tried talking 2 him trust me! & he gets defensive like well when I fall asleep on the couch y don't u come get me? like its my responsibility 2 make him sleep n bed with me. i have even asked him if hes still n love with me & he tells me he loves me more than hes ever loved anyone n this life. & i left him once for 3 weeks & he cried & begged me 2 come back & i eventually did & we had sex everyday GOOD sex not the boring sex we rarely even have now. but this was 7 months or so ago & its back 2 the same old ****. NOW i have not left ANYTHING out.

4 days ago
i also know looks are not everything. im not saying he should b bowing at my feet cuz im pretty im just saying.. i think if i was with any other man he'd want sex way more than twice a month.

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Jul 21, 2013
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Thank You!!!
by: Krysta

:) u put a smile on my face & im gonna take your advice.

Jul 21, 2013
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Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

My Advice: Sometimes when you're young you move faster than you're supposed to. When marriage comes into the picture leaving because of the said actions is not an option. Welcome to the world of love where you easily fall in and out of it. So with all that you said and obviously you're feelings are hurt, it's time to get beneath the surface to see what's really going on. How? Start by having a sit down conversation. Communication is golden in every relationship/marriage. Someone isn't on the same page and when you begin to communicate you will find out who, what and when. Now you're at the point where you realize that you are pretty and have built up your self esteem to the point where your starting to feel like he doesn't deserve you. This could be true but first you must find out what's going on. Sex twice a month for young people, something is amiss. Sleeping on the couch 2-3 times a week, something is amiss. Don't feel sad!!! Get in a nice hot bubble bath, read a book, play some soft music, paint your nails, do your hair. Get brand new! Take the reins of your relationship and do with them as you will. Confidence is the key. Soon enough you will find out if this will last or not.

Wishing You The Best In Love~

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