I want him back as a best friend. What should I do?

by Ishita

I have a boyfriend and my male best friend loves me too but he has stopped talking to me, now what do I do?

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Jun 21, 2014
It's Time to Talk...
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

Hi Ishita!

I'm not sure why your best friend has stopped speaking to you, but I suspect it may have something to do with your boyfriend. It seems like your best friend is a bit upset because you made a choice that didn't include him.

This calls for a phone call; not a DM, Facebook post or a text message but an actual heart-to-heart over the telephone or face-to-face. When our male best friends are in their feelings it's only natural that they back off to sort out their emotions and give you space. Because their inner feelings may have been exposed things will not likely go back to the way they were.

When and if he decides to come back around try not to rub your relationship in his face. Even though you don't like it, it may be easier for him to accept your decision because let's face it, he has feelings for you.

If you want him back make the call and if he doesn't respond then you should just let him be and go on with your life. Good Luck!

Wishing You The Best in Love~

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