How to make a guy fall in love with you without seeming insecure

by Stephanie

I met this guy online and we have been talking ever since. We talk on Skype mostly and we seem to be happy together. He keeps telling me that I should go and visit him since he needs me. I feel like I am falling in love with him and don't know what to do or whether I should tell him because I am afraid I might ruin things or maybe he doesn't feel the same. What should I do to make him love me??? What should i do?

Thank you

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Jan 21, 2014
Keep Your Love a Secret, for now!
by: Lemon & Autumn, "L.A."

Hi Stephanie!

Forgive me for my late reply as I have been super busy. You seem like a very sweet person but I think you should seriously consider pumping your brakes. Meeting/dating online is pretty popular nowadays because it's easy and convenient to meet new people but it's also easy to tell lies and make up relevant stores i.e. past, childhood, marriage and lifestyle etc.

He says he wants you to visit him because he needs you? Ask yourself this one question, what does he need you for?

I mean obviously he was doing OK without you, right? Now suddenly he needs you. What could a person that you meet online need you for and with such urgency?

Obviously your feelings are attached and maybe you've even made up your mind to meet him. I don't want to discourage you because people fall in love online all the time but I think instead of revealing your feelings find out more about this person, here's how:

Ask your date to meet up. Go somewhere public, you pick the location. Take a few friends and have them sit at a table near you. Give them a code if you are being threatened or you are ready to leave. Unfortunately people cannot be trusted. This will take care of your safety and give you the opportunity to meet this person face to face.

Read the signs! If something doesn't feel right go with it. Usually your intuition is on point!

Wishing You The Best in Love~

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