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The Love Chamber Xpress, NEW Issue #2021 -- Where is the Love?
May 20, 2021
Welcome to The Love Chamber Xpress Issue May 2021 Issue #2020-01. It has been a while since you've received an issue of The Xpress and course for many reasons. I do apologize for that! It has been a long journey keeping the site and it's contents up to date, especially with all that's been happening. The biggest news is, drum roll please - I'm back!!!
I just wanted to take this time to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for your continued input, support, love, donations and dedication in helping to make www.thelovechamber.com a better place, what a sweet movement we share.
Welcome to a New Year (2020)! The year of new beginnings, better health, exercise and keeping or getting your love on track.
Let's get to it!
The Love Chamber has been on another long hiatus but I'm back with a new and improved outlook on life. I only hope that my journey can inspire yours for the better. This month we will explore the art of seduction, three ways to be charming, ways to love yourself and what exactly are we reading right now.
The Art of Seduction
If we leave out all of the other attributes to the word seduction we have only the process of deliberately enticing a person. Have you ever walked into a room and the very first person that saw you does a double-take? Have you ever brushed past someone in a hurry but the contact was so strong that it made the other person turn around and say, who was that? Have you ever stood in a crowded elevator so closely to someone that they literally stopped breathing when you accidentally lean into them?
That is the ART: Having a demanding presence is the beginning of learning the craft of developing the art of seduction. Your aura should be so strong that you have a glow around you. You demand respect, appreciation, affection, love, companionship and all of the best that life has to offer. You exude confidence and being confident means you're also very aware of your hygiene and cleanliness, the way you dress and present yourself outward.
Hygiene is very important if you want to gain confidence in becoming a seducer, tempter or seductress. You can't be confident if you're not sure if the steak and cheese smell is coming from the deli down the street or beneath your arm pits. You can't be confident if when you talk to someone you burn all of the hair from their brows and wonder why they look surprised. You cannot be confident if when you take off your shoes, the entire room smells like a frito concert. The very first thing you must overcome and conquer on your road to confidence is your hygiene. This means loving yourself entirely. Below are a few ways you can start building your self-esteem and confidence:
1. Set a routine/calendar for regular grooming. This would include washing your hair, giving yourself facials, flossing and brushing your teeth regularly, shaving and exfoliating, hot bubble baths for soaking and rejuvenating. Time to file, trim and polish finger nails and toes.
2. Picking out the best soaps, lotions, deodorant that's best for you. Men and women can't go wrong using the yellow dial bar soap. It's clean smelling and refreshing. Otherwise there are different varieties of soap for both male and female, test the waters to see which ones work best for you.
3. Lotion, lotion, lotion!!! Everybody gets dry after having a shower or bath. Picking the right lotion that can compliment your pH balance is key. If you're not a person who indulges in different scents, Aveeno oatmeal is your best bet. Be sure that your lotion is not over powering all of your other efforts.
4. Keeping healthy breath is a very important factor in the skill of confidence. Floss regularly to get food particles out of the cracks of your teeth, it makes a difference. Brush twice a day and use mouth wash if you're feeling a bit cautious in between.
5. Wash your clothes! It doesn't matter if you do not own a washing machine or dryer, it doesn't matter if you do not have change to go to the laundromat. What matters is that you take the time and effort to clean your belongings. Wearing clothes that don't smell is the beginning to you walking in a new direction in your life's journey. Work on you, from the inside out!
Look at yourself and all of those little quirks you don't like, start using your time and energy on how to get rid of them or fix them. If you have sweaty feet, get powder and learn how to add it to your shoes. The point is, you must put forth the effort to master your body and those things about you that needs confidence building, get busy working on them. Don't forget to use google as another tool in gaining resources.
Continue to do these things for yourself and somewhere along the line, someone will come along and appreciate all of your efforts that you put into yourself. You never know, you could inspire someone else to show themselves as much self love as you have shown to yourself.
Three Ways to be More Charming
Put that cell phone down, open your eyes and look around. Staying off of your phone shows people that you are very independent, observant to things around you, open for chit chat, even admirable. Some people like to pretend that they are always reading emails or text messages to avoid making eye contact and talking to people. Everybody says they are so busy but the truth is this: Even busy people make time for the people they love and care for. Keep the phone down and let your eyes do the talking!
~If you don't love you, then who~Affirmation: I am strong, I am great, I am beautiful, I am handsome, I am wise, I am diligent, I am resourceful, I am smart, I am kind, I am generous, I am thoughtful, I am special, I am confident, and I am not afraid!
What Are We Reading?
Lately, I've been reading a lot of good books. They take me to places I've never traveled before. Such details draw me into the books, I can feel the wind blow, smell the grass and hear the trees. Books are excellent for distraction and I always say you learn something new from each adventure. Below are three good books I've read. I am also selling my one and only copy. Sure you can find the below books online from someplace else but if you want an autographed copy, purchase the only one I have from The Love Chamber.
Night Thunder's Bride by Karen Kay
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