Are The Sparks Still There?
Welcome to Love in July, Special Edition Issue #024. The question this Month is; Are the sparks still there in your relationship?
As you can see I didn't get the Xpress out on yesterday but no need to get bent out of shape because July is still the Month where you and your significant other can get closer by gathering together with family and friends, having fun, cooking out and occasionally enjoying a night sky lit up with beautiful bursts of color. It's also a good night to look at your partner with more than just appreciation but yearning. Reminisce on how HOT the sex used to be and what can be done to make it better.
I will give you some suggestions on ways to keep the fire burning in this issue, but first:
Journey with me as I reveal promised birthday mentions this month, find out if love is really in the cards for you, continue
our discussion on keeping the fire burning in your relationship, learn 3-Ways to re spark the magic in your partnerships and be the very first to view The Love Chamber's Jewelry. Inventory going fast....ENJOY!
Is it your birthday this month?
Awwww, it is?
I would also like to wish a very Happy Birthday to:
- Barton, Canada
- Thonmas Winfield, US
- Sierra White, USA
- Ming Lee, CA
- Pyong K
- Latasha Stewart
- Michele Allen
- Katrina of Bouie, MD
- Pretty Boy, MA
- Jose Martinez, MO
And to everyone born in the month of JULY continue to stay close to home and keep up with the beautiful traditions your family cherishes; this keeps you grounded and warm at heart.
Reminder: In order to get a special birthday mention in The Love Chamber Xpress, email your name, DOB and your location to: email@example.com
Also, if you are a New
Subscriber of The Love Chamber Xpress and have not received your free gift, please shoot me an email.
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Love, is it in the Cards for You?
~Let's see how Love affects you~
Lately, I've been giving out advice about significant others who refuse to believe when their partners say to them, "it's over". Instead they keep throwing themselves at the mercy of the court without accepting the truth. Denial is as bad as being addicted to the worse drug. Instead of revealing your desperation let me give you a few suggestions to exude the confidence that's within you, thus securing who you are.
Love starts with you!
In order to move you have to believe in something. Believe in you!!! Some of us spend a life time believing or boasting on someone else and their achievements instead of looking in the mirror and knowing there is nothing that YOU cannot do! Motivation is an infectious piece of the pie, grab a slice!
Walk with your head up high!
Some people might say "I need to see the ground". In confidence wherever
you go and step out, you have already canvassed the area, the texture of the ground, the weather, the traffic at the light and the number of people in the vicinity. It's called being conscious! Awaken and you will find yourself!
Lots of times we talk about things we wish we could have or would get instead of using words like I'm working on this or that's in the making. As an individual who only has one life to live, if you want something and spend your whole life saving to get it; I admire you. There aren't many people devoted to a cause that they enjoy. Good for you!
Spend your time wisely!
Once a week set some time aside for yourself! This means washing your hair, giving yourself a facial, giving yourself a pedicure and foot message, lotion your body thoroughly with massaging motions, lotion/oil feet really good, shave/trim personal areas, deep clean your mouth, and enjoy a relaxing weekend. Wash your
clothes and pick-up a good book. Keep your mind stimulated at all times.
Find something else to do with your time!
Sometimes other people can occupy our time so much that we end up missing out on our blessings. You suddenly look up one day and life as you know it has passed you by. You ask: Where did the time go? But you were too busy partying and staying out late at night. It's OK to fraternize but at some point you must also come to the realization that some of your friends (especially the older ones) are EXACTLY where they want to be in life. You're not! Keep it moving!
While reading did you guys notice what I didn't mention?
Relationships or Dating! Why? Because there is no way that love is in the cards for you; if you aren't already entertaining the suggestions above! The focus should be on you and your self-development and growth as a person. It's
not until you put all of your energy into you that you stand strong within yourself. Self-Worth is one of the most powerful energies that lifts self-esteem and boosts confidence.
If you know who you are and will not settle for being treated like anything less then and only then can you understand and accept the truth. Love yourself enough to not be taken advantage of. Love yourself enough to make sure that you are an equal in your relationships, love yourself enough to not stay in relationships that are physically, verbally or emotionally abusive. Love yourself enough to have a say, compromise, reciprocate emotions/feelings, are on the same page as a couple.
When you feel the respect isn't there anymore it's OK to move on. Let them miss you while you're gone for a change instead of the other way around! Good Luck!
Keeping the fires burning
in Your Relationship
Below are just a few simple suggestions to keeping the fires burning at home.
Men a lot of times don't like when women wear too much make up this is especially when it comes to lipstick/gloss. Sometimes we should look in the mirror and ask ourselves if you would kiss those lips?
While engaging in sexual activity instead of thrusting in and out, grind instead. Your partner will be delighted and find this enjoyable.
Poker isn't the only game you can strip to. Try stripping to blackjack, hearts, checkers or any game of your choice.
If you shave your personals just be aware that it will be a little itchy as it grows back in, but it will be smooth as a baby's butt in the meantime. You and your partner should take full advantage of it and enjoy to satisfaction.
When you travel, collect those little bottles
of mouth wash as you can keep in your purse, suitcase or night stand. Great way to keep fresh breath or even start fellatio.
3 Ways To Re-Spark The Magic Back Into Your Relationship
3 Ways To Re-Spark The Magic Back Into Your Relationship
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn't have the magic and
romance that it once had? Feel like you're stuck in a rut and always doing the
You’re not alone. After dating someone for a long time, it's easy to
slip into a stable and comfortable routine. However, you often lose the spark
that made your relationship so special in the first place. Not to worry, here
are three simple, fun and creative ways to reignite that magic:
1. Give them a unique gift - Name a Star after your partner.
A number of astronomical agencies allow individuals to name stars and you receive
formal documentation identifying the star that you have named. Or how
this: Give your partner a magic gift box, and every month place a new small
gift in the box for your beloved to discover.
2. Say "I love you" in a unique way - Take a book
that your partner is reading and, using a pencil, underline letters in a section
of the book she has yet to read to spell out a secret message of "I love
you" or an entire love letter. Doing it just like this. Or for something
really unique: You can buy special plants that grow and after 14 days display
a message of your choice on the leaf. Cool or what!
3. Start going on dates again - One thing that separates couples
with 'out of this world' relationships, is they never stop doing new, fun and
exciting things with their partner. In other words, they never stop dating and
neither should you.
Spend the day doing fun things: go to the carnival, the beach, have a water
fight, stare at the clouds on a grassy hill, go on a picnic, walk in the rain
without raincoats and umbrellas, dress up in funny costumes and hit the town.
Or how about this: Pick your partner up for a date and blindfold her before
driving to a special destination. Try to make the destination something really
unexpected like a table set up at the top of a cliff or a dinner on a boat or
old-fashioned ship. It needs to be something that will have an impact when she
removes the blindfold.
Believe me when I say that NOTHING can rekindle the love, passion and excitement
in your relationship more than going on fun and creative dates together.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 300 Creative Dates,
a book jam-packed with ways to rekindle your relationship with creative and
romantic outings, including including ideas for every day dates,
relationships, birthdays, anniversaries and more. To learn more, visit the creative
date ideas site.
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